I have been accused by someone of being a potentially a “terrible head of the family” if I ever get married next time.
You are free to pass your own judgment and opinions. But this is also coming from the same person who admired my desire to raise a family in the future. So who is being contradictory now?
I have long accepted my own faults long ago to the point where I don’t care about others say about me. I will accept feedback and criticism to improve of course. But if you attack me personally as a human being for my own character and beliefs, be prepared to be ignored. And by the way, contradictions and ironies are part and parcel of life. Also something I learned long ago and just tried to understand and accept.